Hi,
1. It is best not to put a button, it prevents spam. You can add a submit button in:
(component)/view/kide/default_form.php
(module)/tmlp/default_form.php
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<textarea id="txt" name="txt" onkeypress="return KIDE_pressedEnter(event, false, false)"></textarea>
<br /><br />
Add after
<input type="submit" value="Send" /><br />
2. /language/en-GB/en-GB.com_kide.ini
line 16
KIDE_USER_BANEADO=%name has been banned
Saludos!